I guess if it's complicated, it might be too complicated to explain. And yeah...I got really lucky, to be honest. That's why I try to help out others as much as I can but...
...true friends are there when the going gets rough. They aren't just around you because you're a big name, or because you can provide them with something they want and then if the situations are reversed, they won't do anything or give you time of day.
[If words could drip with bitterness, it would be these here.]
I don't think it's really between friend and true friend but...I've had some people who called me a friend but I knew they weren't.
I'm sorry that people have tried to use you. "It is lonely at the top" is a sentiment I often hear tossed around, and though I never stopped wishing to be there, I can't imagine that existence is particularly easy.
Understanding when people are not "true friends" is the mark of a good person, I think. It means you're not shallow.
Oh...man that sucks. I'm sorry. What did you play? If I can ask...
Ha. Dad said that to me one time, I still remember it. Business deals, children of another company coming to visit and then just try to get through you to get through them...
...I'm really glad we came to this place. There's a lot more people I consider true friends here.
AND YEAH SHALLOW IS THE WORD I WAS LOOKING FOR THANKS wait sorry I got too excited there.
Guitar...I play a little bit of electric, but nothing big...
Well I hope you can play it again. I'd be happy to have you over at the studio!
Yeah! We were gonna go either here or Hollywood, I'm glad we managed to get the parents to come here instead. It's not as glamorous, but I think even my parents appreciate the people a lot more here.
HA! I bet if I could see it, that would be a smile! I'm sure it looks great.
[WHAT IS EVEN HAPPENING?!?!?!?! He's so confused he leaves capslock on.]
YEAH!! COME SEE IT IT'S PRETTY GREAT.
WELL THANKS I THINK? I COULD TRY DOING IT FOR YOU BUT I'D NEED TO SEE YOU FIRST I FEEL IT WOULD BE KINDA WEIRD IF I NEVER SAW YOU IF THAT MAKES SENSE??? I ONLY DATED ONE PERSON BEFORE AND IT DIDN'T LAST LONG SO HONESTLY ANY FLIRTING ON MY PART IS 100% AN ACCIDENT. I COULD TRY MORE IF YOU WANT? I THINK?
tHAT'S TRUE! i HOPE i DIDN'T COME OFF LIKE SOME DOUCHE EITHER. i'M JUST NOT USED ON GETTING FLIRTED ON EITHER. [Is she, he's not sure. Ps, still haven't taken capslock off.] oH YEAH YOU DO LOOK PRETTY CUTE!!!
[He probably sounds like an idiot. He did he go from cheering someone up to this???]
oH RIGHT UH...WAIT IS THAT WHAT WE SAY IN CANADA i FORGOT
hEY i DIDN'T MEAN ANYTHING WRONG BY IT!!! lIKE i THOUGHT IF i WENT IN TOO FAST IT WOULD SOUND CREEPY i GUESS? i'M NOT USED TO GIRLS TELLING ME HOW TO FLIRT.
bUT i WAS BEING TRUTHFUL PRETTY CUTE IS HOW WE SAY THINGS i COULD HAVE GONE FOR BEAUTIFUL OR AMAZING BUT HENCE THE CREEPY DUDE COMMENT. i MEAN LOOKING BACK i COULD HAVE JUST SAID CUTE??
No way! Objectified is like...if you were an object. You can flirt with a girl and not make her sound like you're just trying for a one night stand or something. Besides everyone needs a little friendship and love in their life.
Oh. Well good thing I noticed, it might have gone on for longer.
Anyway, his name's Minato Arisato! I probably make him sound all weird, but he's a great guy once you get to know him.
ARE YOU LIKE HIS GIRL OR SOMETHING?? I TRY NOT TO ASK QUESTIONS TO HIM ABOUT HIS LIFE LIKE THAT I DIDN'T KNOW! WE PLAY YOUTUBE STUFF ONLINE TOGETHER AND I HANG OUT WITH HIM!
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NO DON'T BE I MAKE THE MISTAKE ALL THE TIME LMAO
I guess if it's complicated, it might be too complicated to explain. And yeah...I got really lucky, to be honest. That's why I try to help out others as much as I can but...
...true friends are there when the going gets rough. They aren't just around you because you're a big name, or because you can provide them with something they want and then if the situations are reversed, they won't do anything or give you time of day.
[If words could drip with bitterness, it would be these here.]
I don't think it's really between friend and true friend but...I've had some people who called me a friend but I knew they weren't.
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I'm sorry that people have tried to use you. "It is lonely at the top" is a sentiment I often hear tossed around, and though I never stopped wishing to be there, I can't imagine that existence is particularly easy.
Understanding when people are not "true friends" is the mark of a good person, I think. It means you're not shallow.
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Ha. Dad said that to me one time, I still remember it. Business deals, children of another company coming to visit and then just try to get through you to get through them...
...I'm really glad we came to this place. There's a lot more people I consider true friends here.
AND YEAH SHALLOW IS THE WORD I WAS LOOKING FOR THANKS wait sorry I got too excited there.
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I'm glad you could find a place where you could be yourself and be appreciated for yourself and not what you are or where you come from.
You're funny. You're welcome.
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Well I hope you can play it again. I'd be happy to have you over at the studio!
Yeah! We were gonna go either here or Hollywood, I'm glad we managed to get the parents to come here instead. It's not as glamorous, but I think even my parents appreciate the people a lot more here.
HA! I bet if I could see it, that would be a smile! I'm sure it looks great.
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Oh.
...Now it feels like you're flirting with me.
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OH SHIT. I'm sorry if it seemed like that!! It's tough making it sound more like a friend. I promise I'm not one of 'those guys!'
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I don't get flirted with very often, if ever, so I found it quite novel, actually.
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YEAH!! COME SEE IT IT'S PRETTY GREAT.
WELL THANKS I THINK? I COULD TRY DOING IT FOR YOU BUT I'D NEED TO SEE YOU FIRST I FEEL IT WOULD BE KINDA WEIRD IF I NEVER SAW YOU IF THAT MAKES SENSE??? I ONLY DATED ONE PERSON BEFORE AND IT DIDN'T LAST LONG SO HONESTLY ANY FLIRTING ON MY PART IS 100% AN ACCIDENT. I COULD TRY MORE IF YOU WANT? I THINK?
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I don't think it's a hard and fast rule to have to see someone before you flirt with them.
Wouldn't that mean that physical attraction is all that matters?
Besides, my avatar is one of my nicer photographs, in my opinion.
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tHAT'S TRUE! i HOPE i DIDN'T COME OFF LIKE SOME DOUCHE EITHER. i'M JUST NOT USED ON GETTING FLIRTED ON EITHER. [Is she, he's not sure. Ps, still haven't taken capslock off.] oH YEAH YOU DO LOOK PRETTY CUTE!!!
[He probably sounds like an idiot. He did he go from cheering someone up to this???]
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I'm not sure how I feel about you needed to qualify my cuteness by preceding it with "pretty" but a compliment is a compliment, I suppose.
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hEY i DIDN'T MEAN ANYTHING WRONG BY IT!!! lIKE i THOUGHT IF i WENT IN TOO FAST IT WOULD SOUND CREEPY i GUESS? i'M NOT USED TO GIRLS TELLING ME HOW TO FLIRT.
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So if I am not truthfully "pretty cute", what am I?
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aRE YOU TOYING WITH ME i'M NOT SURE SORRY
bUT i WAS BEING TRUTHFUL PRETTY CUTE IS HOW WE SAY THINGS i COULD HAVE GONE FOR BEAUTIFUL OR AMAZING BUT HENCE THE CREEPY DUDE COMMENT. i MEAN LOOKING BACK i COULD HAVE JUST SAID CUTE??
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Ha ha ha
I'm having fun talking to you. I don't know what happened.
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sORRY HINDSIGHT IS 20/20 OR HOWEVER THAT EXPRESSION GOES.
aND GOOD! WELL SAID FRIEND i SPOKE BEFORE SAYS i TEND TO BE ENERGETIC FOR THE BOTH OF US SO MAYBE THAT'S WHAT HAPPENED HERE?
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I'm on a computer btw, I think I would have noticed on the phone.
[Probably.]
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Hah...
I was waiting for you to notice before i would tell you, truthfully.
[...]
What's your friend's name?
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Oh. Well good thing I noticed, it might have gone on for longer.
Anyway, his name's Minato Arisato! I probably make him sound all weird, but he's a great guy once you get to know him.
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Oh.
I wonder how Minato would feel about you flirting with me.
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WHAT
WHAT
shit did I miss up
ARE YOU LIKE HIS GIRL OR SOMETHING?? I TRY NOT TO ASK QUESTIONS TO HIM ABOUT HIS LIFE LIKE THAT I DIDN'T KNOW! WE PLAY YOUTUBE STUFF ONLINE TOGETHER AND I HANG OUT WITH HIM!
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Well.
It's not like we're dating.
We are rather close, I would say.
I would just be interested to find out.
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REALLY?
Hmmm...maybe I could sewgay that into a discussion with him!
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It's segue, by the way. Not "sewgay."
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